I thought these thoughts from Randy Thomas were actually quite useful.
I have a feeling Jennifer isnâ€™t clueless that most Christians believe homosexual behavior is sin.Â I just wonder if anyone ever offered to share with her a redemptive view of sexuality instead of being heavy handed on condemning the behavior.Â To ask Jennifer to â€œrepentâ€ is to ask her to give up her hard fought battle to reconcile her life to herself.Â Itâ€™s to ask her to sacrifice two of the biggest investments in her life (her partner and identity.)Â That is no small thing and should not be treated lightly.
Temptations, if they are of any worth as temptations, usually latch on to a legitimate need and point to sinful behavior as a way to meet those needs.Â However, in Christ, temptations are also an opportunity to recognize legitimate needs and pursue meeting those needs in biblically appropriate ways.Â Jesus was tempted in every way but never sinned.Â His Spirit can empower us to discover, learn and implement ways to meet our needs and turn away from sin.Â Right now, and not knowing her personally, it would seem that Jennifer is seeking to meet her needs in the only way she knows how or feels is an option.Â God understands this and I have no doubt is working in her life to provide His redemptive perspective.
Later I thought about this person saying Jennifer was offending a Holy God.Â That irritated me at the time and didnâ€™t quite know what to say without getting upset.Â So I was silent in the conversation but I wished I had said that instead of God manifesting in all His glowing glory and declaring how offended He is, He manifested as Jesus Christ.Â He didnâ€™t cross His golden robed arms, roll His heavenly focused eyes and snarkily guffaw a lightning bolt out of His mouth to express his offense.Â A tortured, grieving Jesus willingly outstretched His arms and was nailed to a cross. As He died, He didnâ€™t lament how badly His Bride, His Church, was treating Him.Â He asked the Father to forgive us for we know not what we have done.
If anyone had a right to abandon everyone who offended him, Jesus was that person.Â But He didnâ€™t.Â Instead He paid the highest price possible to forgive us in spite of us.
Jennifer says she knows the Lord.Â I assume that is true.Â And if it is true, He never lets go.Â He wants her and her partner (all of us) to know that He offers a greater love than we could ever imagine or think.Â His love outshines any human love and can satiate any soul.
Lord, empower us to invest our love wisely â€¦ starting with You. Amen.